Every Blog will have his day…
In an effort to curb my tendency to be unable to write about a subject in under 4000 words, there are now Tumblr and Twitter accounts for Gordonsdrysin. At the very least, they’ll carry occasional visual ‘humor.”
Self-Sabotage and Passive Aggression in Relationships…
I recently posted in a group about self-sabotage in M/s relationships. Situations where a slave acts out passive aggressively, or in ways that destroy the benefits of the power exchange. I came up with a number of core reasons that lie behind destructive self-sabotaging or passive aggressive behavior in relationships, and I thought I’d enlarge […]
Towards an Understanding of M/s in Western Thought
With the need to manage various real-world events bearing down on me, most of my writing in the past few weeks has been in response to writing on FetLife. This started life as a post in response to a very intelligent question about M/s and inequality, suggesting that it was a division of responsibility rather […]
Brooks and Hughes attack on Sex Educators
This is a courtesy Repost of information forwarded by Maymay, a well known Sexual Freedom Advocate, Blogger, and Activst, and the founder of Kink for All. The Kink for All program has been aimed heavily at promoting awareness among teens and adults of the alt-sex community. I’m just going to say up front that I […]
Can a Master Rape a slave?
This is an essay I originally wrote in response to a discussion in an M/s group on Fet. The question that was raised was whether or not a Master could rape his slave (presuming a relationship in which all rights to the slave’s body were assigned to the Master). I’m reposting it here, because I […]
Graduation and Presenting at BR
I don’t usually post much in the way of personal promotion here, but I wanted to take the time to post two brief notes, as I’ve had a few small personal milestones. I’m now a Clinical Hypnotherapist. I recently completed a DETC Accredited degree in Hypnotherapy. While this is not exactly an MBA or PhD, […]
A Little About the Making of a Dominant…
In the last three years, I’ve spent an intense amount of time both in “real life” and online, breaking down, analyzing, and understanding the minds of young girls. The motivation for this is my personal modality as a Trainer. A few years ago I came off of a D/s relationship where in the end I […]
Craigslist Shutdown
For folks who don’t follow the news over the weekend, Craigslist has shut down it’s “Adult Services” section. For people who don’t understand what that means, Craigslist is the single largest advertising forum for independent prostitution in the U.S. This negatively impacts some friends of mine who identify as sex-workers, and I think it’s a […]
PAC – 2 – The Master as Counselor/Therapist…
The Master as Therapist In an ideal world, every girl who was drawn to M/s for whatever reason would have a competent Master and a competent Therapist. If, not, let’s hope for one out of two. A lot of people see “Therapy” as a sort of magical thing that no layman should dare attempt. There […]
Advocacy for M/s and other Fetish Issues…
In a group I follow on FetLife, the question came up of displays of M/s in public and whether or not that was appropriate. I wanted to share my personal feelings, and expand that into the larger sphere of public advocacy. The first thing I want to say is that I think that effective advocacy […]